💖 Sweet Not Stupid — Ritual Oil Guide

Charm with Boundaries • Smart Love Energy • Aura Protection

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What This Oil Is For

Sweet Not Stupid is for anyone ready to attract love, admiration, and connection without sacrificing their self-worth. It helps you radiate warmth, charm, and emotional beauty while keeping your standards high and your intuition sharp.

This oil draws in romantic attention, respect, and spiritual compatibility — but it also blocks energy vampires, lovebombers, and emotionally immature partners. Use it to soften your aura without leaving it wide open.

It’s love magick with a brain, spine, and a shield 😉

🌿 Key Ingredients & Their Spiritual Power

Sweet Almond Oil – The base of this oil, used to soften emotional energy while supporting heart chakra flow and gentle attraction. Perfect for love spells with emotional clarity.

Damiana – A herb of charm and seduction, used to magnetize loving attention while keeping your personal power intact. Adds sweet sexual confidence without being overly vulnerable.

Ylang Essential Oil – A powerful oil of divine magnetism and emotional beauty. It enhances sensuality, self-love, and emotional receptivity while protecting against jealousy or emotional manipulation.

✨ Use This Oil When…

• You want to attract a new romantic partner without lowering your standards

• You’ve been giving too much in love and want to call your energy back

• You need to stay soft and sweet, but emotionally protected

• You’re manifesting respectful intimacy, not surface-level attention

• You want to look, feel, and move with charming but guarded energy

🌙 When to Use It — Astrological Power Timing

• Friday (ruled by Venus) for love & charm

• New Moon to call in high-quality connections

• Full Moon to amplify confidence and soften bitterness from past relationships

• During Venus transits or when working with Venusian energy (Oshun, Aphrodite, Freya, etc.)

💧 How to Use

✨ Anointing:

Apply to your pulse points, chest, heart chakra, or behind the ears before dates, meetings, or rituals involving love, communication, or discernment.

🔮 Ritual Use:

Use in self-love candle rituals, attraction spells, mirror magick, or when calling in a partner who sees you clearly and values your emotional depth.

🏡 Home Protection:

Place a few drops on your doorway, bedposts, or altar to attract loving, emotionally safe energy into your space — while keeping narcissistic or chaotic suitors out.

🛁 Baths & Washes:

Add a few drops to ritual bathwater with rose petals and pink Himalayan salt to boost heart chakra healing and emotional cleansing.

🧿 Affirmation:

“I am magnetic, wise, and worthy of love that respects my softness and honors my soul.”

🕯️ Incantation (Choose One):

1.

“I call in love that sees my soul,

And honors me with care and whole.

Sweet I am, but never blind —

Love aligned with heart and mind.”

2.

“Beauty with boundaries, charm with grace,

Love that flows at a sacred pace.

Let no fool pass through my field,

Only truth that’s gently revealed.”

3.

“From sweet to smart, my glow is mine,

No spell shall cross this guarded line.

I call in love that’s pure and real,

With wisdom wrapped in what I feel.”

🌟 Bonus Tips:

•  Pair with rose quartz, pink opal, or rhodochrosite during ritual work

• Wear during first dates, reconciliations, or heart-centered conversations

• Anoint the corners of your love letters or journals to channel emotional intelligence into your writing

• Burn a pink candle dressed in rose, damiana, and lavender alongside this oil to sweeten communication and filter out BS

• Store near your mirror or vanity altar to charge with beauty and boundary energy daily