I’m the Sh*t Ritual Guide
👑 I’m the Sh*t — Oil for Boss Energy, Self-Worth & Attraction
Eva’s Magickal Wonders™
Theme:
Boss Energy • Self-Worth • Attraction
🔮 What This Oil Is For
There comes a point in every person’s journey where healing is no longer enough.
The wounds have been identified.
The lessons have been learned.
The heartbreak has been survived.
The betrayals have been exposed.
Now it’s time to remember who the hell you are.
I’m the Sh*t was created for those stepping out of self-doubt and into self-possession. This is an oil of confidence, magnetism, attraction, visibility, and unapologetic personal power. It supports those who are ready to stop shrinking, stop chasing validation, and start embodying the version of themselves that naturally commands attention, respect, and opportunity.
This oil carries strong solar energy. It encourages you to become visible, take up space, and own your gifts without guilt. It supports glamour work, attraction workings, confidence rituals, influence work, success manifestation, and personal empowerment.
However, visibility comes with a price.
The brighter you shine, the more attention you attract.
Some people will admire you.
Some will be inspired by you.
Others may project their insecurities, jealousy, envy, or resentment onto you.
This oil helps strengthen your inner authority so you can remain grounded in your worth regardless of who is watching.
Because confidence isn’t arrogance.
Confidence is remembering what you’ve survived and refusing to play small ever again.
🌿 4 Key Ingredients & Their Spiritual Power
🌻 Sunflower Oil
A solar ally associated with confidence, leadership, visibility, success, and personal power. Sunflower helps amplify your presence while attracting recognition and opportunities.
🍇 Grapeseed Oil
A smooth, adaptable carrier associated with attraction, manifestation, and energetic flow. Grapeseed encourages movement, confidence, and receptivity to blessings.
🌼 Calendula Petals
Traditionally associated with success, favor, confidence, and personal influence. Calendula encourages visibility and helps attract supportive attention.
🍃 Bay Leaf
A powerful herb of victory, manifestation, achievement, and wish fulfillment. Bay has long been used in success workings, confidence rituals, and personal empowerment spells.
🍊 Orange Peel
Associated with joy, attraction, luck, prosperity, and charisma. Orange Peel brings warmth, optimism, and magnetic energy.
🍊 Sweet Orange Essential Oil
A bright solar oil linked to happiness, attraction, confidence, abundance, and personal radiance.
🔥 Cinnamon Essential Oil
A fiery catalyst associated with speed, attraction, success, influence, and manifestation power.
🌙 Use This Oil When
- You’re struggling with self-confidence.
- You feel invisible or overlooked.
- You’re stepping into a leadership role.
- You’re building a business or personal brand.
- You want stronger attraction energy.
- You’re doing glamour or influence work.
- You want to become more magnetic and memorable.
- You are recovering from narcissistic abuse or confidence-damaging experiences.
- You want to embody your highest version unapologetically.
🪐 When to Use It — Astrological Power Timing
📅 Best Days
- Sunday ☀️
- Friday ♀️
- Thursday ♃
🌙 Moon Phases
- New Moon for identity reinvention
- Waxing Moon for confidence growth
- Full Moon for visibility and attraction
✨ Planetary Allies
- Sun (confidence, authority, visibility)
- Venus (attraction, beauty, magnetism)
- Jupiter (success, expansion, influence)
🧿 How to Use
✨ Anointing: Apply to wrists, neck, behind ears, and solar plexus before social events, content creation, dates, meetings, or interviews.
🕯 Ritual Work: Dress gold, orange, or yellow candles for attraction, confidence, visibility, and success.
🛁 Bath & Body: Add to ritual baths focused on glamour, confidence, and attraction.
🏡 Home & Altar: Place on vision boards, mirrors, business plans, social media goals, or success altars.
🛡 Protection & Manifestation: Use before stepping into spaces where you want to be noticed and remembered.
🧴 Room Wash: Add to cleansing washes to refresh your environment and attract uplifting energy.
🛏 Pillow / Linen Use: Apply before sleep to strengthen confidence and self-worth.
📜 Petition Jar: Add to jars focused on attraction, success, popularity, influence, and recognition.
🌬 Diffuser During Talks: Use before important conversations, networking opportunities, or public appearances.
🚗 Travel Charm: Carry before interviews, speaking engagements, performances, or social events.
💬 Affirmations
- “I know my worth and I refuse to shrink.”
- “I attract respect, opportunity, and admiration naturally.”
- “My confidence is rooted in truth, not validation.”
🕯 Choose Your Incantation
🔥 Commanding
“I know my power, I know my name,
No fear, no doubt, no hidden shame.
Let every room remember me,
As I walk boldly and confidently.”
🌙 Poetic
“Like sunlight dancing on the sea,
Confidence awakens within me.
My gifts shine bright for all to see,
And what is meant arrives to me.”
👑 Gentle
“I honor my worth and trust my light.
I release the need to hide.
I welcome confidence, joy, and attraction,
And I move through life with grace.”
💫 Bonus Tips
• Use before creating content, posting online, or appearing on camera.
• Pair with gold jewelry during rituals for solar amplification.
• Perform mirror work while using this oil.
• Keep a success journal documenting wins and achievements.
• Use consistently when rebuilding confidence after difficult life chapters.
PAIRING OILS FOR MAXIMUM POWER ⚡️
⚡ I’m the Sh*t × Pleasure Is My Power
Theme: Divine Magnetism • Seduction Energy • Unapologetic Confidence
This pairing creates the energy of someone who no longer seeks validation because they have become the validation.
Pleasure Is My Power awakens sensual confidence, body appreciation, attraction, and sacral power, while I’m the Sh*t amplifies visibility, charisma, and self-worth. Together they create a potent glamour combination for those wanting to become more magnetic, attractive, influential, and unforgettable.
This is the energy of walking into a room and naturally drawing attention without forcing it.
Pairing Benefits
• Strengthens attraction energy and personal magnetism.
• Encourages confidence in appearance and self-expression.
• Supports glamour workings and beauty rituals.
• Helps release shame surrounding confidence and visibility.
• Increases charisma during social interactions.
• Encourages embodiment of divine feminine or divine masculine energy.
Suggested Work
• Use before dates and romantic encounters.
• Dress pink and gold candles for attraction work.
• Perform mirror glamour rituals.
• Apply before content creation and social events.
• Use during Venus rituals focused on beauty and magnetism.
• Create affirmations celebrating confidence and desirability.
Results
magnetism amplified • attraction increased • confidence embodied
💰 I’m the Sh*t × Make That Money Honey
Theme: Luxury Mindset • Wealth Attraction • Success Embodiment
Money responds differently when you stop approaching it from desperation.
This pairing encourages the mindset of someone who expects opportunities, abundance, and prosperity because they recognize their value. It supports attracting clients, customers, raises, opportunities, and financial growth through confidence rather than scarcity.
Pairing Benefits
• Strengthens abundance consciousness.
• Encourages confidence when charging what you’re worth.
• Supports wealth attraction and prosperity work.
• Helps release scarcity-based thinking.
• Promotes success-minded decision making.
• Encourages financial confidence and visibility.
Suggested Work
• Dress green and gold candles.
• Apply before launching products or services.
• Use before interviews and salary negotiations.
• Create abundance petitions.
• Perform prosperity rituals during Jupiter hours.
• Journal future wealth goals and milestones.
Results
wealth attracted • confidence increased • opportunities expanded
🛡️ I’m the Sh*t × Shield of Thorns
Theme: Protected Visibility • Anti-Evil Eye • Success Defense
The more visible you become, the more attention you attract.
Not all of that attention is supportive.
This pairing is designed for those who feel their confidence, beauty, success, popularity, or visibility attracts jealousy, envy, gossip, or resentment. It helps reinforce energetic boundaries while allowing you to remain visible and successful.
This is one of the strongest glamour-protection pairings in your collection.
Pairing Benefits
• Protects confidence from jealousy and envy.
• Supports visibility without energetic depletion.
• Helps shield against the evil eye and hostile attention.
• Encourages healthy boundaries around success.
• Reinforces confidence while remaining protected.
• Helps prevent outside opinions from influencing self-worth.
Suggested Work
• Use before public appearances.
• Dress gold and black candles.
• Apply before posting online or launching projects.
• Use during glamour and attraction rituals.
• Create protection petitions for visibility work.
• Anoint mirrors before confidence rituals.
Results
confidence protected • visibility strengthened • envy deflected
🚫 I’m the Sh*t × Trap the Narcissist
Theme: Self-Worth Restoration • Validation Detox • Power Reclamation
Few things destroy confidence faster than prolonged exposure to manipulative people.
This pairing helps individuals reclaim self-worth after relationships, friendships, workplaces, or family dynamics that encouraged self-doubt, people-pleasing, insecurity, or emotional dependence.
The goal isn’t revenge.
The goal is remembering who you were before someone convinced you that you weren’t enough.
Pairing Benefits
• Restores confidence after toxic relationships.
• Supports stronger boundaries and self-respect.
• Helps release dependency on external validation.
• Encourages healthier self-perception.
• Promotes emotional independence.
• Reinforces personal authority and worth.
Suggested Work
• Perform mirror work focused on self-worth.
• Dress gold and pink candles.
• Journal limiting beliefs ready for release.
• Use after breakups or toxic friendships.
• Create confidence petitions.
• Practice daily affirmations of personal value.
Results
self-worth restored • boundaries strengthened • power reclaimed
🪞 I’m the Sh*t × Return to Sender x1000
Theme: Evil Eye Reversal • Jealousy Protection • Confidence Preservation
Confidence attracts attention.
Success attracts attention.
Beauty attracts attention.
Influence attracts attention.
And unfortunately, so does envy.
This pairing is ideal for those who feel targeted by jealousy, gossip, resentment, projection, or people who become uncomfortable when they witness someone stepping into their power.
Pairing Benefits
• Helps shield confidence from outside negativity.
• Supports protection against jealousy and envy.
• Reinforces emotional resilience.
• Encourages confidence despite criticism.
• Helps release fear of being visible.
• Protects personal growth from outside interference.
Suggested Work
• Use before posting online.
• Dress black and gold candles.
• Create protection petitions.
• Perform confidence rituals during Full Moons.
• Apply before public events.
• Use after receiving unwanted attention or criticism.
Results
confidence preserved • negativity cleared • power maintained
⚖️ I’m the Sh*t × The Final Verdict
Theme: Reputation Vindication • Truth Revealed • Respect Earned
Sometimes confidence isn’t enough.
Sometimes you need the truth to come out.
This pairing is for those who have been underestimated, misjudged, falsely portrayed, overlooked, or spoken about unfairly. It supports situations where your character, talents, or intentions have been questioned and you are ready for your actions to speak louder than rumors.
The Final Verdict brings truth to the surface while I’m the Sh*t ensures you remember your worth regardless of what others think.
Pairing Benefits
• Supports reputation restoration after gossip or false narratives.
• Encourages confidence during periods of scrutiny.
• Helps expose misinformation and hidden agendas.
• Reinforces trust in your own truth.
• Supports recognition based on merit and authenticity.
• Helps release the need to constantly defend yourself.
Suggested Work
• Dress white and gold candles for truth and recognition.
• Use before difficult conversations or public appearances.
• Create petitions focused on justice and visibility.
• Apply before situations where your reputation is being evaluated.
• Journal what you know to be true about yourself.
• Use during Full Moon truth-revealing rituals.
Results
truth revealed • reputation restored • respect earned
👁️ I’m the Sh*t × Gatekeepers Guard
Theme: Glamour Protection • Discernment • Visibility With Wisdom
Not everyone deserves access to you.
Not everyone deserves your energy.
Not everyone deserves a front-row seat to your success.
This pairing helps you remain visible without becoming vulnerable. It strengthens discernment while allowing confidence and magnetism to flourish.
This is especially powerful for influencers, creators, entrepreneurs, readers, healers, performers, and anyone whose visibility attracts attention from both supporters and critics.
Pairing Benefits
• Helps identify genuine support versus hidden motives.
• Strengthens intuition regarding new opportunities and relationships.
• Supports visibility while maintaining energetic boundaries.
• Encourages wise decision-making regarding exposure and trust.
• Helps prevent oversharing and energetic leakage.
• Reinforces personal sovereignty and self-protection.
Suggested Work
• Use before networking opportunities.
• Dress blue and gold candles for wisdom and visibility.
• Apply before collaborations or partnerships.
• Journal intuitive impressions about people and opportunities.
• Create protection rituals around public work.
• Use before entering highly visible environments.
Results
discernment sharpened • visibility protected • intuition strengthened
💼 I’m the Sh*t × Untouchable at Work
Theme: Executive Presence • Professional Magnetism • Career Influence
This pairing creates the energy of someone whose presence is felt the moment they enter the room.
Not because they demand attention.
Because they naturally command respect.
Untouchable at Work protects your professional reputation while I’m the Sh*t amplifies confidence, visibility, leadership, and influence.
This is CEO energy.
This is promotion energy.
This is “they can’t ignore me anymore” energy.
Pairing Benefits
• Strengthens leadership presence.
• Encourages confidence in professional environments.
• Supports visibility during promotions and advancement.
• Helps attract recognition from decision-makers.
• Reinforces authority and self-assurance.
• Supports healthy ambition and success.
Suggested Work
• Apply before interviews, reviews, and presentations.
• Dress gold candles for recognition and influence.
• Create promotion petitions.
• Use before networking events.
• Journal leadership goals and future achievements.
• Perform confidence rituals before major career moves.
Results
authority established • influence expanded • success amplified
🧠 I’m the Sh*t × Sweet Not Stupid
Theme: Confidence With Discernment • Attraction Without Illusion
Confidence becomes dangerous when it lacks wisdom.
This pairing helps balance charisma with discernment, ensuring that attraction, attention, and opportunities do not cloud judgment.
Not everyone who praises you supports you.
Not every opportunity is aligned.
Not every admirer deserves access.
Pairing Benefits
• Encourages balanced confidence.
• Strengthens intuitive decision-making.
• Helps identify red flags beneath charm.
• Supports healthy boundaries in relationships and business.
• Encourages strategic thinking.
• Reinforces emotional intelligence.
Suggested Work
• Use before making major decisions.
• Dress yellow and blue candles.
• Journal relationship and business insights.
• Use before negotiations and agreements.
• Apply before social gatherings and networking.
• Practice discernment-focused affirmations.
Results
wisdom strengthened • confidence balanced • choices improved
🧭 I’m the Sh*t × Clear the Crossroads
Theme: Confidence Breakthrough • Visibility Expansion • Opportunity Acceleration
There are seasons where confidence exists but movement does not.
You know your worth.
You know your gifts.
Yet opportunities seem stalled.
This pairing helps remove energetic roadblocks while accelerating visibility, recognition, and progress.
Pairing Benefits
• Supports breakthrough after periods of stagnation.
• Encourages forward movement toward goals.
• Strengthens confidence during transitions.
• Helps attract aligned opportunities.
• Promotes momentum and action.
• Reinforces trust in your path.
Suggested Work
• Dress orange and gold candles.
• Use before launching projects or offers.
• Create road-opening petitions.
• Apply during New Moon manifestation rituals.
• Journal goals ready to be activated.
• Visualize open pathways and opportunities.
Results
doors opened • momentum restored • success accelerated
💖 I’m the Sh*t × Hexless Heart
Theme: Self-Love Sovereignty • Heart Healing • Confidence Restoration
Some people aren’t struggling with confidence.
They’re struggling with the wounds that destroyed it.
This pairing is for those rebuilding after rejection, betrayal, abandonment, humiliation, criticism, heartbreak, or emotional manipulation.
Before confidence can grow, the heart often needs healing.
Pairing Benefits
• Supports healing from confidence-damaging experiences.
• Encourages self-love and self-acceptance.
• Helps release emotional wounds tied to self-worth.
• Strengthens personal compassion.
• Promotes emotional resilience.
• Reinforces confidence rooted in authenticity.
Suggested Work
• Perform self-love bath rituals.
• Dress pink and gold candles.
• Create affirmations focused on self-worth.
• Journal emotional healing milestones.
• Practice mirror work.
• Use during Venus rituals.
Results
heart healed • confidence restored • self-worth strengthened
🌕 I’m the Sh*t × Womb of Lifetimes
Theme: Ancestral Confidence Healing • Sacred Feminine Power • Self-Worth Reclamation
Not all self-esteem issues begin in this lifetime.
Many people inherit patterns of shrinking, self-sacrifice, silence, invisibility, people-pleasing, or fear of standing out from the generations that came before them.
This pairing explores the possibility that confidence wounds may have roots deeper than personal experiences alone. Womb of Lifetimes helps uncover inherited stories surrounding beauty, success, femininity, visibility, leadership, and self-expression, while I’m the Sh*t helps rewrite them.
This pairing is especially powerful for those who feel they were taught to stay small, quiet, agreeable, or invisible in order to survive.
Pairing Benefits
• Helps identify inherited patterns surrounding self-worth.
• Encourages healing of generational confidence wounds.
• Supports reclamation of feminine and creative power.
• Promotes freedom from ancestral limitations surrounding visibility.
• Strengthens confidence rooted in authenticity.
• Encourages embodiment of personal power without guilt.
Suggested Work
• Journal family beliefs about confidence, beauty, money, and success.
• Perform Full Moon rituals dedicated to ancestral healing.
• Dress gold and burgundy candles.
• Use during womb healing and self-worth meditations.
• Create petitions releasing inherited limitations.
• Perform mirror work while honoring your lineage and growth.
Results
ancestral wounds healed • confidence reclaimed • power embodied
🌟 I’m the Sh*t × Star Child Shield
Theme: Inner Child Healing • Confidence Protection • Authentic Expression
Sometimes the version of you that doubts themselves isn’t your adult self.
It’s the younger self that learned rejection, criticism, bullying, abandonment, or shame.
This pairing helps protect and nurture the inner child while strengthening adult confidence and self-expression.
The result is confidence that feels genuine rather than forced.
Pairing Benefits
• Supports healing from childhood confidence wounds.
• Encourages self-acceptance and authenticity.
• Helps release fear of judgment.
• Strengthens emotional resilience.
• Promotes healthier self-expression.
• Supports visibility without fear.
Suggested Work
• Perform inner-child meditations.
• Write letters to your younger self.
• Dress white and gold candles.
• Create affirmations focused on self-acceptance.
• Use during self-healing rituals.
• Build a confidence altar dedicated to growth and healing.
Results
inner child supported • confidence protected • authenticity restored
🌬 I’m the Sh*t × Perfection Detox — Release the Pressure
Theme: Authentic Confidence • Perfectionism Release • Self-Acceptance
Perfectionism is often disguised as ambition.
But underneath it frequently lives fear.
Fear of judgment.
Fear of failure.
Fear of criticism.
Fear of not being enough.
This pairing helps dismantle the belief that perfection is required before visibility, success, confidence, or happiness can exist.
Pairing Benefits
• Helps release unrealistic expectations.
• Encourages confidence without perfection.
• Supports self-acceptance and emotional freedom.
• Reduces performance anxiety.
• Encourages healthier ambition.
• Strengthens trust in personal growth.
Suggested Work
• Create release rituals focused on perfectionism.
• Dress soft gold and white candles.
• Journal unrealistic expectations ready to be released.
• Use before public speaking or content creation.
• Practice affirmations centered on authenticity.
• Perform New Moon self-acceptance rituals.
Results
pressure released • confidence strengthened • authenticity embraced
🔗 I’m the Sh*t × I Blocked Your Destiny Swap
Theme: Power Reclamation • Visibility Protection • Personal Sovereignty
One of the most powerful pairings in the entire collection.
Some people spend years feeling disconnected from their confidence, their gifts, their attractiveness, their influence, or their ability to succeed.
This pairing focuses on reclaiming ownership of your identity.
It is especially powerful for those who feel they have spent years living beneath their potential, giving away their power, or allowing others to define who they are.
This is the energy of reclaiming your throne.
Pairing Benefits
• Strengthens personal sovereignty and self-definition.
• Encourages release of comparison and competition.
• Supports confidence in your unique gifts.
• Reinforces trust in your personal path.
• Helps reclaim personal authority.
• Encourages embodiment of your highest potential.
Suggested Work
• Dress royal blue and gold candles.
• Create petitions focused on personal power.
• Use before major life transitions.
• Journal old identities ready to be released.
• Perform confidence rituals during Full Moons.
• Visualize stepping fully into your highest self.
Results
power reclaimed • identity strengthened • destiny embodied
🏡 I’m the Sh*t × Harmony Home
Theme: Confidence at Home • Family Support • Authentic Living
It is difficult to feel powerful in public when you feel unsupported in private.
This pairing focuses on creating harmony between personal confidence and the environments where you spend the most time.
True confidence flourishes when you no longer have to wear armor inside your own home.
Pairing Benefits
• Encourages emotional safety and support.
• Strengthens confidence within family dynamics.
• Promotes healthier communication.
• Supports peace and self-expression.
• Encourages authenticity at home.
• Helps maintain confidence outside of public validation.
Suggested Work
• Use during family healing rituals.
• Dress white and gold candles.
• Create affirmations centered on self-expression.
• Use before difficult conversations.
• Add to home blessing rituals.
• Journal family dynamics ready to improve.
Results
home harmonized • confidence supported • authenticity strengthened
💀 I’m the Sh*t × Skinwalker Banish
Theme: Glamour Protection • Confidence Cleansing • Visibility Defense
This is one of the strongest occult pairings in the collection.
Not every confidence issue comes from low self-esteem.
Sometimes confidence is buried beneath years of criticism, envy, projection, unhealthy attachments, manipulation, or constant exposure to people who benefit from your insecurity.
Skinwalker Banish helps clear what doesn’t belong to you.
I’m the Sh*t helps reveal what was there all along.
This pairing is excellent for people who feel they become invisible, self-critical, drained, or uncertain whenever they begin stepping into their power.
Pairing Benefits
• Helps clear confidence-draining influences.
• Supports release of unhealthy energetic attachments.
• Encourages stronger personal boundaries.
• Protects visibility and self-expression.
• Helps identify external sources of self-doubt.
• Reinforces confidence and personal power.
Suggested Work
• Perform cleansing baths before glamour rituals.
• Dress black and gold candles.
• Use during cord-cutting work.
• Create release petitions focused on self-doubt.
• Apply before highly visible events.
• Visualize confidence returning to every part of your life.
Results
confidence purified • visibility protected • power restored
🌱 I’m the Sh*t × The Life Maker
Theme: Self-Creation • Identity Rebirth • Manifested Potential
Before you can create a business, a relationship, a family, a brand, or a legacy…
You must create yourself.
This pairing recognizes confidence as an act of creation.
The Life Maker nurtures growth, potential, and possibility, while I’m the Sh*t embodies the version of you that finally believes they deserve everything they are building.
This is the pairing for becoming.
Not who you were.
Not who others expected.
But who you are meant to be.
Pairing Benefits
• Encourages personal transformation and growth.
• Supports confidence during reinvention.
• Promotes belief in future possibilities.
• Strengthens self-worth and vision.
• Encourages embodiment of personal potential.
• Supports long-term manifestation goals.
Suggested Work
• Create a future-self vision board.
• Dress gold and orange candles.
• Journal the life you are creating.
• Perform New Moon rebirth rituals.
• Use during major life transitions.
• Create affirmations focused on becoming your highest self.
Results
potential awakened • confidence expanded • future created
✨ Final Thoughts
Eva’s Magickal Wonders™
I’m the Sht was created for those who are done apologizing for their gifts, shrinking their light, or making themselves smaller to keep others comfortable. Whether you’re reclaiming your confidence after heartbreak, stepping into leadership, building a business, strengthening your attraction energy, or embracing your next level, this oil serves as a reminder that your worth is not up for debate. Your confidence is not arrogance. Your visibility is not a mistake. Your success is not something you need permission to pursue. Walk boldly. Be seen. Be remembered. Be the prize.*
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